Posts Tagged ‘Singapore’

Do Singaporeans Perversely Enjoy Shaming Others?

Wednesday, April 29th, 2009

Today is Wednesday, which means that there will be a copy of Digital Life included with The Straits Times. I’m really not a big fan of this, but to be brutally honest, I love to read it for comedic value. Tech news and articles that are a week old, considered ancient by web standards, are published and I love to gleefully run through the usually abysmal reviews and articles.

However, the 2nd page editorial, entitled “High Tech Disgrace” stood out today. The gist of it is how the tech-savvy these days use their gadgets as an excuse on public transportation to not notice others who needs the seat more than them, like the elderly or pregnant ladies. The gadgets provide “a more effective camouflage than newspapers as they shut out both your visual and hearing senses”.

Now my response is this: if you don’t wanna give up your seat, you don’t need an excuse. I’ve seen plenty of people, who obviously notice the person in question who would benefit from the seat more, simply ignoring it. They don’t need newspapers, mobile phones or portable music players. Their skin is thick enough!

To a gadget user like me, this is blatant generalization. I stay in Bedok and used to go to school at Boon Lay. Now I’m working at Jurong. That means a commute time of 1.5 hours each way, 3 hours per day, 15 hours per week (for a 5-day week). Do people truly expect me to be on the lookout for the needy every time I’m on public transportation? It’s simply unpossible. I need my gadgets so that I won’t go crazy from staring at each train and listening to the repetitive announcements over, and over, and over…

I do admit that I could have missed noticing a person in need, because I was plugged in to my iPhone while solving some puzzle on my Nintendo DS. However, let me set the record straight: it is not intentional. My intent for doing so is for my personal enjoyment and to stave off boredom, not so that I can keep my seat. You want proof? I also listen to music while gaming, even if i don’t get a seat. And if someone does get up, I’ll still be on my DS. It’s not like I’m joining the throng of people who are eyeing at it greedily, like some wolf staring at its next meal.

And the solution offered by the editorial? “Creating an online hall of shame”. How typical Singaporean fashion! A solution to every problem is either throwing money at it, or shaming the perpetrators. Which website would thrive by shaming others? Oh wait, this is Singapore. We already have one! Sponsored by the official state newspaper, no less. Nothing much to see there, just showing the world how idiotic, compassion-less and ego-centric Singaporeans are.

This problem isn’t one-fold. It’s two: the person giving, and the person receiving. And the mindset of a whole country. Zen Habits, one of my favourite personal improvement blogs, has a very nice article for Singaporeans: 5 Tiny Steps to Quit Being Such a Jerk. 5 steps that cannot be more simple, in my opinion:

  1. Admit you’re not perfect.
  2. Place yourself in the shoes of others.
  3. Act with compassion and kindness.
  4. Practice, practice.
  5. Do 5 little things.

Please visit that page for a more detailed analysis. But the basis is simple: place others before self. I hope you do realise that this whole economic crisis thing is also due to greed and not placing others before oneself. Money isn’t the root of all evil; desires are. The desire to have a nice seat for your long commute. But at what expense?

Of course, it’s easier said than done. I do realise that I shouldn’t preach without practice. Rest assured, I’m not. With my upcoming marriage, it’s even more imperative that I walk this talk.

[5 Tiny Steps to Quit Being Such a Jerk]

Singapore Government No Likey Interwebz

Thursday, February 5th, 2009

Contrary to what some may feel, Singapore’s Senior Minister of State for Information, Communications and the Arts, Lui Tuck Yew, has said the internet is not an effective self-regulated regime.

The Internet is a regime now?

Asking the internet to regulate themselves is like asking the crowd at a stadium to sit down quietly and watch the match. I guess the minister is really not acquainted with the web at all. Can someone send him this instructional video on what the internet is for?

You actually take the words of porn-watchers seriously? Seriously?

Mr Lui added that the internet community had not done enough to rebut some of the unhelpful comments delivered by fellow netizens.

I somehow find it difficult to see people vehemently supporting the ruling party. In every nook and cranny of the forums and personal blogs, criticism is abundant. I wonder, when this generation replaces the one before it, will PAP still get majority vote?

The blogs of local netizens were abuzz with the incident involving Mr Seng.

I always love to see quotes like these in the local newspapers and local online news sites. The term “netizen” seems to be a favourite catchword for SPH. I don’t remember seeing it used in any other website. And where are these so-called “blogs of local netizens“? You know, I’ll bet soon, the government will form a team whose sole job is to scour ping.sg’s feed and hardwarezone forums like a hawk, noting down each post, it’s origin, check the whois or ask hardwarezone to hand over the private information of the user, and knock on the bastard’s door. Then, coerce and lock him or her in a detention centre with over-sized windows in a toilet cubicle. Prison Break II!

Too much?

[Internet not an effective self-regulated regime, says MICA]

Open Letter To Mr. Gopalan Nair

Thursday, December 4th, 2008

(OK, after a few days, I finally mustered up enough courage to post this.)

Dear Mr Gopalan Nair,

In this post, you called for Singaporeans to “stand up like a man, and live like a man”.

When you were recently incarcerated in Singapore, due to the charges brought on to you, you pleaded guilty. However upon your return to the US, you retracted your public apology, citing it was due to a “desire to get out of prison as soon as possible”.

How is this standing up like a man and living like a man? If you had taken your own advice, you would probably still be in prison, “sticking it to the man”, refusing to retract every statement that you have originally made, with the belief that what you had said and written is the truth. If you had believed that what was made against you wasn’t fair, I would expect a person who is bold enough to put words on a public blog, to stand by his own words.

Yet you chose to take the easy way out. To get away from Singapore and return to your new home, halfway around the world.

I am not saying that what you did was wrong. Or that it was bad. I’m just criticizing the fact that from what you put in your blog, you seem to have Singapore’s best interest at heart, but when the talk required the walk, you decided to eat your own words (on record, I might add), turn tail and run home. If you seem proud to be an American, why bother coming here or writing about Singapore at all? As you have stated, you have made your choice. So have we, Singaporeans.

Ever since I started earning my own income, I have been trying to understand the Singapore political situation. You were one of the few sources of opposing political views that I have managed to find on the Internet. However, your last actions proved to me that you are no Dr. Chee Soon Juan, the late Mr. J. B. Jeyaratnam or the currently popular Mr. Tan Kin Lian. Those people are good examples of political opposition in Singapore. You, sir, are just another rabble rouser.

I’m sorry, but you are no longer credible in my eyes. I do sincerely hope that you will be happy in the United States Of America. Just remember to pay your share of the U.S. National Debt.

Regards,
Mart